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I Will Forgive Myself For Being Human.
Understand that you deserve forgiveness
Forgive yourself for your mistakes by forgiving others and letting go of past grudges.
Give yourself the gift of time – take a day off from work to decompress
Get rid of all reminders of what happened, including photos, emails, or anything else related to it
Do something nice for yourself as a way to start moving forward with peace and happiness in mind
1) Understand that you deserve forgiveness
The first step in learning how to forgive yourself is to understand that you deserve forgiveness.
Everyone makes mistakes, and forgiving yourself will not make you a bad person; on the contrary, it shows that you can take responsibility for your actions instead of making excuses or pretending as nothing has happened.
Did you know that there were a group of people in the medical profession that were asked to come together to place a dollar amount on the worth of an average human being? I was so interested to find out what the answer was listening to this on radio, it was never really anything I had ever thought about before and the answer was a whopping $6 Million Dollars so whenever you start to look down on yourself or sometimes feel worthless aside from anything you say or do you are walking around with a value of this huge amount of money in just your body and it's parts alone!
All jokes aside even though the above is true you need to start realizing or knowing your worth, your value and how much better things are because you are here. you may have days that you don't bring anything to the table for yourself or anyone else for that matter but you have a tremendous amount of power!. You can make people happy , you can also make them sad , you have an impact with your words and actions just as much as others have influenced you in your life who have sometimes said bad things to you that might be repeating itself in your mind years after the fact or maybe the good things that have been said to you that counteracts the bad or lessons the pain. May that person that hurt you was projecting on you because they were having a bad day and decided to take it out on you just because you were there. (happens all the time actually) but you don't have to go up and down like a bouncing ball affected by every bit of verbiage that any random person throws your way because you have magical powers to heal yourself, change your mind, re-think things and more! like doing good for yourself as well as others, pursuing a dream and taking a chance on stiving for happiness and ignoring the crap that anyone has said or done to make you think less of yourself. Now with that being said let's do a bit of reflecting. Close your eyes and go back to that day that this certain someone hurt you or criticized you. Let's pic this apart a bit.
#1 is what they said to you true?
#2 is it still true now if it was true then?
#3 How do you feel about the person who is hurting you? is this someone who is respectable and well liked? or more importantly do you admire or respect this person in anyway?
#4 is it possible they are just venting out on you does it seem or feel that way? many people who are not happy with themselves tend to behave that way and can just blow up on someone who has absolutely nothing to do with any problems they face they will even create something to blame you for usually this type is known as a narcist who never hold themselves accountable for the troubles they cause themselves or to others these are very toxic people but the good news is with the right kind of help you can heal and recover from all of the above.
Another thing I have observed is many people are angry with themselves and sometimes don't even realize it.
We can sometimes hold ourselves up to an unrealistic standard and blame ourselves for allowing things to happen like why didn't say this or do that when so and so did this or said that to me!, or why was I so good and kind to that monster and let them get away with this or that.
And of course there's a long list of other possible scenario's and we subconsciously blame and punish ourselves when in fact the truth is that based on the information you had at the time you probably did the right thing or the only thing you could do at the time.
We need to learn to put blame where it belongs doing the kind thing, the patient thing, the so called right thing is not a fault it's a quality and if someone abused that or took advantage of your kindness that's on them not you! that person did the corrupt thing the so called wrong things to a person who lives by a higher standard, a quality person who was genuine and sincere.
Don't change who you are based on these types of people and please don't be envious of this type either, people like this are in a very dark place and bring sadness to people wherever they go, trust me it's not personal.
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