Ok so we have finally come to the end of this training for setting healthy boundaries, you may not realize how much this issue can affect your life but the root of many of your troubles is not having the ability to say no when you know you should. I cannot count how many people want to make others happy while making themselves miserable, especially when things don't work out as expected or as we hoped. For example trying to do what makes your parents happy and what's good for them when at the end of the day it's all about their ego and using you as some trophy , this can happen with family, romantic partners and other relationships as well and this turns into a big toxic circle and your trying to prove yourself sometimes cutting your nose only to spite your face and get into a whole series of self sabotage only semi conscious of what the truth is when all you have to do is ask yourself some big question ,why! why am I doing this or that? is it because I want to prove something to someone? is this real love? is it about me having my own will and crying like a baby only to get a toy and don't care about it once I got my wish?.when you examine like this if your reasons are not good and pure it will not work STOP!
Learn Calm, Learn Peace, Learn To Trust In The Universe And It's Plans For Your. If The People You Love Are Making You Do Things That Make You Sad If You Don't Draw The Line Now You May Never Forgive Them Later. I am sure You Don't want a lot of built up resentment with people you love right? setting a healthy boundary in the end is good for all parties, maybe not so much at the start but better now then when it is too late.
Thank you for reading, This is Your psychic
Christine Wallace
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